when i was an undergrad my creative non-fiction teacher sat me down in her office and said to me: “lizzy, there are some girls boys just want to have sex with and not marry.”

it seemed harsh at the time, especially since i was late in the game and at that point still had never had sex.  today i’ve been thinking about her again though and i wonder what she would say about my book.

she also told me i should call the police and get therapy.  it was a strange class.

christmas is coming.  i’ve had plenty of proposals for sex since i was 19 but none for marriage.  it’s possible my teacher was right.  give it a few weeks.  i can still call the police if i need to.